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Adrian Scharfetter

(he/him)
Fully remote
Santa Rosa, CA 95404
PhD, LMFT, CST

About Adrian

I'm here to walk alongside you as you navigate stress, anxiety, depression, life transitions, and questions around sex and sexuality. During moments when doubt, frustration, or uncertainty feel heaviest, I offer a steady, focused presence,someone truly with you in it. My approach blends solution-focused strategies with deeper exploration. I'm process-oriented rather than directive, which means we follow where you need to go, at the pace that feels right for you. Life throws challenges our way, struggles with loved ones, transitions, intimacy questions, or feeling misunderstood because of who you are or how you love. When these moments come, we have three choices: resist the change, just survive it, or lean into it and let it teach us something that makes our lives richer. I believe you're capable of that third path. My role is to help you reconnect with your inner wisdom, uncover strengths you might not see yet, and build a life that truly feels like yours, one that's authentic.

Licensed in

California

Services

Couples Group in-person Group remote Individual remote Low-dose psycholytic Self-guided

Specialties

Anxiety Attachment Couples Depression Emotionally Focused Therapy Existential Therapy Family / Marital Therapy Grief Internal Family Systems (IFS) LGBTQ+ Mindfulness Psychoanalysis PTSD Relationship Issues Sex addiction/therapy Somatic Experiencing Spirituality Transpersonal Therapy Trauma Veterans & First Responders

Languages Spoken

English

Insurance Accepted

None (out of pocket)

Session Cost Sliding scale

With insurance $10-$30* Out of pocket $200 - $250
*Typical copay range

Military Discount

Adrian offers a military discount for active duty service members, veterans, and their families.